the right question

so one day i had to ask the question: well its was a Sunday..

Hi,
How are you?
as i realized that Match.com is a learning experience, i am learning as i go. and yesterday evening i had the chance to think differently the matching process.
As i am trying to match myself with the best compatible person out there, i am also learning about myself.
would you tell me what impression did you have of me during our date?
E

And got the answers below from 3 previous dates:

Elodie,
Thank you for your email and for your voicemail. I am very sorry it's taken me a while to get back to you.
I think you are a tremendously interesting person, and I enjoyed our time together that night. But, I have met someone else and would like to see where that goes. Given how honest you were, I thought the respectful thing to do is to be direct with you.
If you are open to being friends, I would be interested in that particularly given we have some similar interests.
Y.

Hi Elodie,
This is difficult question to answer as I for me these match dates are very difficult to gain much of an impression of a person as I think people are playing safe, maybe not as relaxed of course as if they were with their friends. Having said that you were very easy to talk to, interesting person and open , overall a very good impression certainly nothing bad at all. Now I am curious to know what you thought of me.. perhaps should meet for a drink to discuss
A.

you sound like you are in a strange mood. ;) Well I don't think I can get into that topic without being a little tipsy. Are we still planning on a roof drink...weather permitting?
H

Elodie,
I'm touched you're asking me this. I'll start off by saying that I felt like we didn't "click" during the last date, but, I still like you, and I'd actually like to see you again. There's something about your inner qualities that I'm attracted to. I sense a really beautiful warm heart. But I got the sense you weren't having the best time with me. Maybe it's a cultural thing. I also get the sense that you're a little guarded. I have this hunch that somehow you're a different person when you are feeling safe and happy.
Some questions for you. How did YOU feel about our date? Did you enjoy yourself on the whole date? Did you enjoy some parts? And, I'm curious what your impressions of me were. Did you enjoy my company? Did you not?
Please be as honest as you like. I can handle the truth.
-J.

And then I canceled my match.com subscription. chefellle200952419844550